I’m seeing in women what I don’t want them to see in men, and vice a versa. What I’m seeing in today’s relationships is duty for duty. There’s no giving of anything but only doing what’s assumed the other wants for an exchange; entitlement or you can forget about it. What happened? Don’t hold my feet to the fire there’s always exception to the rule; if you’re the exception stop reading but this is what I see and hear, and it’s this kind of mindset in relationships that breeds confusion causing the enjoyment and pleasure of giving and being a giver more less extinct, turning a spontaneous life of what’s suppose to be compassion mixed with generosity into expectations and bounty, creating robot relationships made active because of duty. If we could only understand giving in a relationship divorce would practically disappear and marriages would increase. Check this out.
Giving empties secrets, but duty keeps them… A giver you can’t live without, but giving because of duty has an expiration date… Giving creates receiving, but giving out of duty is sabotage… Giving stimulates growth, but duty draws the line… Giving is living free, but duty is bondage… Giving softens the heart, but duty hardens it… Giving is everlasting, but duty is short lived… Giving mixes, but duty clashes… Giving is love, but duty is loveless… Giving makes men — men, and women — women, but duty makes men — males, and women — females.
Where are all the men and women?
So let’s summarize duty relationships: Male and females clashing, their relationships short lived and loveless because of the inescapable hardening of the heart, so you live in bondage with do’s and don’ts and lines drawn in the sand, always on the take sabotaging; expecting, expecting, and expecting; always expecting, living life matching the dumb animal kingdom’s survival for the fittest type of existence, while your true egotistical self-seeking colors and makeup simmer that’ll eventually emerge; they can’t stay hidden, but are poised to ruin and then you wonder.
Now let’s summarize giving relationships: Men and women who can’t keep anything from one another and don’t want too. What they do you can’t live without as something inside of you churns, swelling, wanting to be released so your Other feels about you the same way you feel about them while you both grow into each other sharing life and the world living open and invincible with your hearts entwined. When you look into the mirror you don’t only see yourself because you’ve mixed so perfectly with each other, and you hurt inside for them when you’re not at your best, within as well as out because you don’t want them failing to benefit from anything you know you can offer; so wonderful a person that their memory passes on and never die.
This is what’s called God’s Will — being done on Earth as it is in Heaven (Matthew 6:10). I guess we need to know God’s Will in order to be men and women, and not just male and female. I pray YOU buy into it.
Gaidi
